Sex is without question one of the best things about being alive. Few things bring people such joy as getting naked and banging away until they achieve orgasm. And it is something that literally everyone can do, no matter your race, age, height, weight, disability, financial background. No one is shut out from sex. Even people in wheelchairs and bedridden can experience sex by someone riding them. With all this joy, a lot of people easily let their guard down and do not adequately protect themselves during sex. Having several partners adds even further fuel to the risk factors. It is because of this general lax attitude that some people wind up at the polar opposite extreme of things, being overly cautious about every sexual move they make. Which is admirable, mind you, but eventually it crosses the line into absurdity and can totally ruin any chance of steady relationships.
When sex becomes a part of some kind of obsessive compulsive disorder, it can really make things go south very quickly for those involved with these people. Condoms play a big role, ironically, in ruining hot sex moments for the partners of a lot of these overly cautious types. Imagine that you are a man and a woman does not want to give you head without a condom. It is a definite bummer and very rare that a man wears one for such an act. Lord knows any swallowing is not going to happen in such a case. Some women even demand that their men wear two condoms at once just in case the inner one breaks. Such a request is just about unacceptable for any man; their penis will potentially lose any feeling being so tightly wrapped up. It can get to the point where a woman will only masturbate her man, and even then only with rubber gloves on. Yes, such a compulsive worrier is not going to have a great sex life, even if their intentions are valid.