Guys often think that looking for sex dating will relieve them of having to do all the silly dating stuff that mainstream dating usually requires. That may be true to some extent, but there are a lot of guys that aren’t finding any success in finding those great XXX sex partners that they long for. If achieving positive results in sex dating has been elusive thus far, it might be time to try something new.

Guys who are young and hot with great bodies or men who are wealthy may not have much trouble finding free sex, but what if a guy is just an average Joe – middle aged, not in perfect shape, middle class and not able to offer the ladies exotic trips or expensive gifts? There are plenty of women who don’t care about those things. There are real women who just want a real guy that they can relate to and feel comfortable with and have an exciting sex life with.

First of all the real guys, the average Joes, need to be realistic about what they’re looking for. Women 20 years their junior may not be the best target. Looking for women closer to their own age and even a little bit older may be the best way to go. Women are always complaining that middle aged men want really young women. There are some absolutely beautiful women of advancing years who are looking for nice men to date. Some of these women are sexual dynamos, and most are experienced lovers who can provide an exceptional sexual encounter.

Imagine a woman like Helen Mirren and then reconsider what may be an unrealistic age limit that could be negatively impacting whether a man is successful at sex dating. Being a little bit open-minded about potential partners who might be really sexy and a lot of fun could lead to some amazing sexual encounters. Make sex dating about incredible experiences with interesting people, and don’t rule older women out.